Kuala Lumpur Gay Travel
Kuala Lumpur gay travel recommendations for where to stay, LGBT safety, gay bars, restaurants & things to do.
The Gay Travel Experience: Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
Traveling to Kuala Lumpur was one of the most memorable experiences of my life. I will never forget the nightly prayer calls while strolling the downtown, my stunningly cheap luxury accommodations and the spiciest food I’ve ever eaten!
Gay culture in Malaysia is almost non-existent. However, Kuala Lumpur is in fact home to a gay bar! This is so surprising because of the fact that Malaysia’s government is quite against homosexuality.
Malaysian government officials have made disheartening statements regarding homosexuality in recent years. Without a doubt, I recommend visiting this amazing city, but make sure to read the gay safety section of this guide beforehand.
Kuala Lumpur was a place for me to relax in luxury because the living is extremely cheap. If you’re headed up the coast of Malaysia, it’s a no-brainer to stop here. Once I settled in, I never wanted to leave!
A cultural melting pot, Kuala Lumpur has strong influences from Indian and Chinese culture which mesh flawlessly with Malay society (it wasn’t always this way!).
No matter the cultural background, everyone here is friendly. Taxi drivers love to learn about tourists and give them travel recommendations.
Is Kuala Lumpur Safe for Gay People?
Most importantly, you must remember that the Malaysia is a strict Muslim country and the government is extremely conservative. In all official capacities, Malaysia is not gay-friendly.
This does not mean that Malaysia isn’t safe for gay travelers though. In fact, I highly recommend seeing the wonderful culture Malaysia offers.
Gay travelers in Kuala Lumpur cannot act as freely as they could in many western cities. Even though you may see hundreds of western expats, you should still abide by the local customs.
Same-sex public affection would surely attract negative attention. Other than that, as long as you keep to yourself, there is nothing to worry about in my opinion.
Gay Kuala Lumpur: Hotels & Where to Stay
Staying in the exact city center of Kuala Lumpur is not necessary in my opinion. Since accommodations are inexpensive, you should choose a place to stay based on the quality and amenities offered.
The best Airbnb I have ever stayed in in my entire life was right here in Kuala Lumpur, and I’m not exaggerating. Two infinity pools, a steam room, rooftop gym, sky lounge, café and breakfast restaurant, carport and Wi-Fi throughout the building were just some of the perks.
And the price? Less than $35 USD per night! While the specific place I stayed isn’t available now, there are tons of similar accommodations.
Luxury Kuala Lumpur Airbnb rentals are just outside the center of the city. Most new luxury towers are over here. Many of these are serviced apartments that house ex-pat workers.
If you prefer a traditional Kuala Lumpur hotels, most accommodations available will be near the Petronas Towers toward the city center. This area is just as great.
Kuala Lumpur Gay Travel Experiences
Listening to the prayer calls right before sunset next to the Petronas Towers was my favorite experience in Kuala Lumpur. KLCC Park has a wonderful little pond where you can sit in the grass and take in the skyline.
Visit the Petronas Towers before it gets dark so you can see the sunset and everything in the plaza light up. Once night falls upon the city, the colorful fountain show begins. This area is not just for tourists. You will find tons of locals sitting around the plaza enjoying each other’s company.
Intermark Mall is a noteworthy shopping center right beside the Petronas Towers. Here you will find the typical luxury brands and international café chains. It’s great for a stroll inside to get some cool air or new clothes.
The Kuala Lumpur Central Market might be on your list, but I personally did not find it to be authentic at all. It seems to be a filled with overpriced tourist souvenirs. I’d say you can skip this spot.
Kuala Lumpur Restaurants
There are many higher-end restaurants in this area. I stopped into Limoncello for some drinks and watched the sun set.
The Batu Caves
Spend an afternoon at the Batu Caves, home to some beautiful Hindu temples. It’s one of the most popular and stunning things to see in Kuala Lumpur.
A taxi from the city center takes around 30 minutes with traffic. Before you know it you’ll be hanging with the monkeys.
To avoid the crowds, go in the middle of the day during the week. This is the time I visited and it was mostly empty. Much better for photos!
Prepare for hot and humid weather with a sweat handkerchief, and bring water with you and prepare to climb the 272 multicolored steps (it’s really not too strenuous). Inside it is cooler. If you’re lucky, some locals will be participating in a Hindu ritual at the temple inside the cave.
The cave itself is beautiful and the monkeys are adorable. They will be hopping all around as you climb the steps. Prepare yourself however, as the area suffers from over-tourism.
Sanitation is an issue and the poor monkeys feed off of food remnants in trash. I brought some fresh banana to feed them!
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Gay Kuala Lumpur: Eat the Street Food
Tapak Urban Street Dining has some delicious and jaw-droppingly cheap food. A food truck park with tons of outdoor seating, you can eat to your heart’s content for only a few dollars.
I highly recommend stopping by. It’s quite an authentic experience! Meals range from 7 to 15 Ringgit, which is quite a bargain.
Tapak Urban Street Dining even has a few guitarists for entertainment. I got some spicy Ayam Goreng, and it made me tear up like never before. I can tolerate spicy food well, but this stuff was something else!
Gay Bars in Kuala Lumpur
BlueBoy KL is the only known gay bar in Kuala Lumpur, where drag queens perform each night. This is extremely rare for a conservative Muslim country.
Although I myself did not attend, I have friends that visited. I caution you to use discretion if you plan to visit this establishment.
Kuala Lumpur Gay Travel Tips
Kuala Lumpur is not the most walkable city. Some places such as Petaling Street and Chinatown are perfectly easy to walk through. But traversing the city can be difficult since many sidewalks have dead ends or you must cross busy roads.
Of course, I never discourage hitting the streets to get a real feel of what’s out there! If you find yourself walking through the city center, check out the Kuala Lumpur City Walk.
Chances are if you are staying in a condominium building, you’ll want to order food delivery at some point.
Use the Grab Food app for the easiest experience. It links to the Grab Taxi application. I strongly advise against using the FoodPanda app, which caused a lot of frustration for me.
It may seem counterintuitive, but alcohol is actually cheaper by the glass in restaurants as opposed to buying it by the bottle in a grocery store. No need to stock up since you can get anything from Tiger beer to champagne at reasonable prices in restaurants.
Many travelers feel much more at ease booking travel to unfamiliar countries when they insure their trip. A provider like Travelex Insurance can offer protection in case of medical issues abroad, theft and even delays or cancellation of your trip! They have multiple plan tiers starting at $20.
Right near the equator, Kuala Lumpur will be extremely hot and humid all year. Definitely bring breathable clothing and a stainless steel insulated water bottle so you don’t ever have to drink hot water!
Monkey Safety at the Batu Caves
Gay Life in Malaysia
Malaysia offers zero rights to the gay community. Unfortunately, the government is strictly against LGBT people. Malaysia has gone so far as to advise diplomats not to bring any gay counterparts and even ban any depiction of homosexuality in the media.
Keep in mind, while these laws are horrendous and archaic, there are millions of kind-hearted souls living in Malaysia. The actions and opinions of the government do not reflect on all the citizens of the country.
Still make sure you follow the Kuala Lumpur gay travel safety guidelines mentioned in the beginning of this guide.
I have to say Kuala Lumpur was such an exceptional city to visit. The locals were adorably friendly, the food was out of this world, and the entire experience was super affordable!