Langkawi Gay Travel
wolfyy’s Langkawi gay guide to the best hotels, things to do, nightlife, & LGBT safety tips
The Gay Travel Experience: Langkawi, Malaysia
Langkawi is the top gay travel beach destination in Malaysia. The island is popular with gay travelers because there is enough tourism on the island for locals and other travelers to be more comfortable with homosexuality.
Even though Langkawi is less conservative than places like Kuala Lumpur and other places in mainland Malaysia, it is still not a place you should display overt public affection. It’s best to err on the side of caution.
My conversations with local Malaysians provided some insight into their values and preferences. Not in a position to sell me anything, I listened carefully to everything these guys had to say.
Conversations with Langkawi Gay Locals
I sat down at an Indian restaurant one mid-afternoon while it was empty. The man hanging at the front gave me a little bit of everything to try from the vats. I wasn’t sure what some of it was, so I asked him.
From his explanation, I learned that he loves to prepare his meat fresh and in halal fashion. Everything he serves is directly from the farm and never frozen. He takes pride in preparing these farm-to-plate meals.
A second man with whom I paid my dinner bill at another restaurant questioned why I would fly from Langkawi to another island when I could enjoy a boat ride. I was a bit skeptical of this since some ferries are jam-packed. Nevertheless, I listened.
The next day I booked a ferry to Koh Lipe, Thailand instead of a flight to Krabi. Definitely a more relaxed experience than going through an airport. He was right.
One last waiter I had was so friendly and outgoing, he made me laugh. I also had the suspicion he was gay, although I could always be wrong.
I honestly wanted to ask indirectly, but because being gay is not well-accepted in Malaysia, he may not have been able to be honest with me even if he was gay.
Gay Life in Malaysia: My Thoughts
This experience is an example of how the societal norm of repressing the LGBT community in Malaysia affects their ability to freely express themselves.
I didn’t feel totally comfortable announcing my sexuality to everyone I meet here because it’s technically illegal.
However, I never felt targeted or in danger either. International tourists flood Langkawi, so it’s more liberal than mainland Malaysia.
Is Langkawi Safe for Gay Travelers?
Most importantly, remember that the Malaysia is a strict Muslim country and the government is extremely conservative. In all official capacities, Malaysia is not gay-friendly.
However, this does not mean that Malaysia isn’t safe for gay travelers. In fact, I highly recommend seeing the wonderful culture Malaysia offers. Let me explain.
Langkawi is largely a tourist destination and is probably the most liberal spot in Malaysia—more than Penang and definitely more than Kuala Lumpur. Even so, gay travelers in Malaysia should still refrain from any public displays of affection.
Overt public displays of affection like this may attract negative attention. Otherwise, as long as you keep to yourself in this respect, there is nothing to worry about!
It is certainly frustrating and disappointing to live in, or even visit, a country where basic LGBT rights do not exist. Gay travelers in Langkawi cannot act as freely as they could in most western beach towns.
Gay Langkawi: Hotels & Where to Stay
Booking a Cenang Beach hotel near the water is the best bet. One of the most popular and central hotels in this area is Casa del Mar Langkawi.
Cenang is known for clean beaches, water sport activities, and beachfront bars. I couldn’t have been happier here.
The main road through town was lively and full of authentic Malaysian food. This main road follows the shore, where tons of small bars and hangouts make for a relaxing time.
Kuah is where the ferries arrive in Langkawi. This area will have the cheapest accommodations, but there is not much going on here. I wouldn’t recommend staying here. Most travelers pass through Kuah on the way to their resort.
Langkawi accommodations have a huge range of pricing and are quite budget-friendly. On the lower end, you can stay in Cenang Beach VRBO rental for less than $20 USD per night.
If you prefer the best luxury, hotels on the shores of north Langkawi can reach $600 per night! These resorts naturally have the best of everything.
Check out the Ritz Carlton Langkawi for a piece of luxury, which lands somewhere in the middle of this price range.
Langkawi Gay Travel Experiences
Beaches in Langkawi are the clearest in Malaysia. The water is very clean, the ocean is warm and the buzz of locals felt comforting. Parasailing, jet ski, and other watersport rentals are available right on the beach.
I loved watching the locals running around and laughing as they helped tourists gear up for their experiences.
While the water in Langkawi is totally fine to swim in, it’s not the “crystal clear” blue water that you’ll find on neighboring islands in Thailand like Koh Lipe.
I loved Langkawi for its soft sand and relaxed nature. In comparison to popular islands in Thailand, this Malaysian paradise feels more tranquil and romantic.
Cenang Walk is the area along a road called Jalan Pantai, which follows the shoreline and has many pathways to the beach between buildings.
You’ll find stands to book ferries to surrounding islands along this road, as well as tons of restaurants and mini-marts to buy groceries, sunscreen, and more.
Eat Local Malaysian Food
Restaurants of all types line Cenang Walk, from high-end Chinese to Malaysian street carts. Importantly, prices have an absolutely huge range!
Prices for street food can be as low as only 7 Malaysian Ringgits (less than $2 USD!) up to 50+ Ringgits per plate in some restaurants.
There is no reason to spend money on the higher end in my opinion, as every meal I had at the local Malaysian restaurants that were not as “fancy” was delectable.
Smaller restaurants without elaborate facades and lighting will cost less than a quarter of the price. Head to Bella Restaurant, where I ate several nights. You can enjoy a soup, noodle dish, and a drink for less than $5 USD.
If you prefer higher-end restaurants for the ambiance, I recommend La Sal / La Luna, the beachfront restaurant duo that’s part of the Casa del Mar hotel. This place has a stunning view and a relaxed vibe.
Live seafood restaurants are very popular in Langkawi. Strolling down Cenang Walk you will see many restaurants with displays of the live food you can get. I’m not much of a seafood person, but many of these seemed popular.
Langkawi SkyBridge and Cable Car
Descending from the SkyBridge while sitting in a quiet cable car, I kept thinking about the incredible forest below. The sun was setting on the picturesque mountains behind me and I had a moment of pure peace.
One of the most memorable things you can do in Langkawi, don’t pass up going to the Skybridge!
Take a taxi with the Grab taxi application destined for the Langkawi Cable Car. Purchase a Cable Car Admission Ticket about a day in advance to reserve a place. Early mornings or before sunset are the best times to avoid lines.
I visited at 5:30 PM and I walked right on. For the sky bridge, you can buy tickets once you take the cable car up to the observation deck. It’s only 5 MYR!
Langkawi bars are clustered in North Cenang Beach. The nightlife is quite tame and consists of musical beach gatherings just past midnight.
Grab a drink at Thirstday Bar any time of day or night. They’re open late, whereas many of the beach bars close for the night after dark. The ambiance is stellar and I loved the music.
Right next to Thirstday is another small bar that puts chairs and candles out after dark. I sat here one night basking in the cool ocean breeze, sinking my feet into the cool sand.
Other than some venues that may have the occasional scheduled party, nightlife is pretty non-existent south of Cenang walk.
I strolled down here one night in search of some other Langkawi bars that were recommended to me. But I didn’t find anything special enough to tell you about. Your best bet is North Cenang Beach!
Langkawi Gay Travel Tips
Book a Car from the Airport
Coming from Langkawi airport? take the stress out of finding your way to your hotel by booking a private airport transfer ahead of time. the driver will surely know where you’re staying and the local roads to get there.
Pack Your Tropical Vacation Essentials
Before you head off to paradise, check wolfyy’s useful list of what to pack for tropical destinations. You’ll find my favorite waterproof gear, lightweight clothing ideas, rain gear, and tons more.
Beachside Duty Free Shops
Langkawi is known for the plentiful duty-free shops on the island. Know that they exist along the beaches, not only in the airport and ferry terminal. If you’re staying in Cenang Beach, they are located south of Cenang Walk.
Choosing the Right Tours & Excursions
Before booking any of the cheaper 4-hour excursions, be aware of what you are signing up for. I did not go on one of these trips because I was worried it would be very inauthentic and overcrowded.
Book one online that you can see reviews for, like this 6-hour Langkawi island tour that has a 10-guest maximum.
There are options to join a group of people or charter a private boat. If you have a group of friends (or just want to spend less money), a group island hopping tour isn’t a bad idea. For how low the price per person, the boat will be more crowded than other tours.
Langkawi Gay Life
Unfortunately, the government of Malaysia offers zero rights to the gay community, including those of Langkawi. The nation has gone so far as to advise diplomats not to bring any LGBT counterparts and even ban any depiction of homosexuality in the media.
Archaic laws reign in Malaysia when it comes to LGBT people. Citizens can be tried in specific Islamic courts, where sentences for homosexual activity are akin to torture.
Any same-sex sexual activity is strictly forbidden and the government regulates certain web content. However, police aren’t patrolling the streets of Langkawi in search of gay people.
Keep in mind, while these laws are horrendous and archaic, there are millions of kind-hearted souls living in Langkawi, as well as other parts of Malaysia. The actions and opinions of the government do not reflect on all the citizens of the country.
The country has a long road ahead in protecting the individuals of the LGBTQ people, both citizens of Malaysia and ex-pats.
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