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Los Angeles gay travel advice for hotels, restaurants and gay bars, clubs & the West Hollywood gay neighborhood

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The Gay Travel Experience: Los Angeles, California

Greater Los Angles is huge. There are tons of options for the gay traveler in Southern California, from chill days along the coast to the bustling LA gay nightlife.

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Los Angeles gay travel
California things to do
Imagine yourself cruising down Sunset Strip on your way to the West Hollywood gay neighborhood under the warm California sun. Catch a sunset on the beach and then plop yourself in a stylish cocktail bar after dark before heading out on the town.
California things to do

Southern California is home to a massive gay community. Many gay celebrities naturally call Los Angeles home. While strolling through the LA gay neighborhood, it’s common to see adorable public displays of affection. Stylish gay men are everywhere!

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Los Angeles gay traveler
West Los Angeles
West Hollywood attracts tons of gay tourists every year and has a very concentrated local gay population. WeHo is super popular for quick access to nightlife and a visible, vibrant LGBT community.

Gay Los Angeles: Hotels & Where to Stay

Location in Los Angeles is key, since heavy traffic can make getting around the city super frustrating. Below I’ll explain the best neighborhoods for Los Angeles gay travelers and mention some of my personal favorite hotels.

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Best Neighborhoods for Los Angeles Gay Travelers

The most vibrant parts of greater Los Angeles stretch from the city’s downtown, located about 30 minutes inland from the ocean, to the Santa Monica area, a wonderful beach community along the coast.

Los Angeles neighborhoods for gay travelers
Los Angeles gay travel stay
Los Angeles neighborhoods for gay travelers

Between downtown Los Angeles and Santa Monica are the West Hollywood, Beverly Hills, Century City neighborhoods.

Staying in the Los Angeles Gay Neighborhood

West Hollywood is the famous Los Angeles gay district. Gay men are always strolling Santa Monica Boulevard past dozens of restaurants, storefronts and gyms.

Santa Monica Boulevard and Melrose Avenue are two great main thoroughfares in the Los Angeles gay area to book a hotel. Both streets are lively day and night.

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gay travel Los Angeles WeHo
Los Angeles sunset

Santa Monica Boulevard embodies more of a true gay neighborhood feel, while Melrose Avenue has vibes a bit like a neighborhood in Brooklyn, New York City. Melrose is lined with hundreds of boutique shops and unique restaurants, though. I truthfully adore both!

West Los Angeles

If you choose an Airbnb in West Hollywood, I suggest picking a place within walking distance to the gay bars. This will make things more convenient, especially if you’re traveling with a group of friends.

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Beverly Hills Hotels

For a more luxurious experience, set your sights on the famous 90210 American zip code of Beverly Hills. If you’re willing to pay a little more, a hotel in this wonderful area will be worth it.

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It’s easy to get just about anywhere from Beverly Hills given it’s ideal location. West Hollywood is just a short drive away, and there’s easy access to the ocean via Santa Monica Boulevard.

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I stayed at the SLS Hotel Beverly Hills during one if my visits to Los Angeles. They’re located on the border of Beverly Hills and West Hollywood.

This boutique luxury hotel was absolutely perfect, with a ton of eye-catching features like sliding mirror-walls in the rooms and provocative art in the hallways. 

The staff is friendly and they embody the chill California vibe. They have stellar breakfast options and a relaxing pool deck. I highly recommend!

Other Los Angeles Neighborhoods

Hotels in West LA, Westwood and Century City are also great areas for gay travelers to stay in Los Angeles. I often visit friends who live in Westwood. The Westwood location is great, similar to that of Beverly Hills but less flashy.

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Staying in Downtown Los Angeles

I would personally avoid accommodations in downtown Los Angeles, unless of course you are visiting the city for work. 

The heart and soul of Los Angeles gay culture is in West Hollywood and beachfront communities like Santa Monica, which aren’t really near the downtown center.

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Downtown Los Angeles is quite commercial and can be a bit boring in my opinion. It is a little isolated from all the fun activities the city has to offer.

Los Angeles Gay Travel Experiences

Runyon Canyon is my favorite park in Los Angeles. Locals love Runyon Canyon Park for beautiful trails and wide-open spaces. You can go for a casual walk here or decide to go for a steep hike to the top.

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I love going a couple hours before sunset, heading to the top of one of the smaller peaks and walking down as the sun sets. Runyon Canyon is definitely the best place to hike in Los Angeles!
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The Getty Museum is fantastic place to spend an afternoon. The space is enormous and there is so much to explore. I love the beautiful vistas from the wide-open terraces. Try to get there earlier in the day to avoid lines and/or waiting in the hot summer sun.

Los Angeles gay travel

If you have a car and love driving winding roads, head to Latigo Canyon. An intensely scenic drive, Latigo Canyon Road hugs the mountainsides at a high elevation. You can see the beaches of Malibu and captivating vistas from these heights.

Will Rogers State Historic Park, popular with the gay locals, is a great place to relax and take in some sun in a grassy field. Will Rogers Park is perfect for quiet walks in a wooded area or to have a little picnic with friends.

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Visit Santa Monica

Santa Monica Boulevard is right near the Santa Monica State Beach, a vibrant and walkable area with a ton of restaurants and shopping. Stroll the boulevard and then head over to the Santa Monica Pier. The area is still very lively after dark.

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Los Angeles gay travel
Los Angeles gay travel

Abbott Kinney Boulevard

Abbott Kinney Boulevard is a beautiful street near Venice Beach to shop, grab snacks or have an early dinner! Local foodies love Abbott Kinney.

They have a monthly event called “First Friday” where high-quality food trucks line the streets before sunset.

Restaurants in Los Angeles

My top recommendation for Los Angeles restaurants is Auburn, located in the Melrose neighborhood. At Auburn you choose four, six or nine dishes from a selection of small plates. Everything is so perfectly crafted.

Los Angeles melrose restaurants

They offer a wine pairing option as well to go with every course. I (happily) almost couldn’t keep up. I recommend going for the wine pairing and skipping the cocktails here. 

*Auburn recently announced the restaurant has closed down indefinitely for the COVID-19 pandemic, but is trying to re-open if possible once things start to recover.

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The brand-new Century City Mall is a beautiful complex to spend a relaxing evening with friends or by yourself. There are tons of restaurants and unique little shops amongst the big brands there. The mall has an Eataly, which is very popular with the locals for dinner.

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If you have time, make a reservation at Din Tai Fung Taiwanese Restaurant in the Century City Mall. The food was out of this world. Din Tai Fung is super popular, especially on weekends. It’s best to go put your name in, do some shopping and come back afterward for dinner.
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Los Angeles gay travel experiences
Santa Monica restaurant

Craving amazing soup dumplings in LA? Northern Café in Westwood has the best dumplings around. A casual Chinese place best for lunch or an early dinner, I promise you will not regret making a trip here. It is so delicious!

Santa Monica restaurant

Plan Check Kitchen & Bar is perfect for a cocktail-filled brunch. With locations in both in Sawtelle and West LA, Plan Check Kitchen & Bar has indoor and outdoor seating, a ton of soul food and fantastic service. They are known for their fried chicken! I really enjoyed the spicy custom cocktails too.

Digest afterward by taking a walk through Japan Town. There are a lot of bubble tea shops and fun storefronts to browse.

Brunch Restaurants in Los Angeles

Check out Botega Louie if you’re in Downtown Los Angeles. The entrées are delectable and the pastries are so adorable! Botega Louie is great for lunch or a small pastry to go. You will probably want to make a reservation, since it can get crowded with people who work downtown.

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Los Angeles gay brunch
downtown Los Angeles bakery

Kitchen 24 is a fun spot for breakfast with a little bit of people watching in West Hollywood. They have a cute and colorful outdoor seating area where you can watch the boys of WeHo stroll the sidewalks. This gay area of WeHo is great to spend a warm summer morning!

Los Angeles gay brunch

Los Angeles Gay Bars

Gay nightlife in Los Angeles concentrates in West Hollywood. Driving down Santa Monica Boulevard, you’ll see dozens of parties lighting up the streets. This area of town is very walkable.

The Abbey & Chapel

The Abbey and “Chapel at The Abbey” are crowd favorite Los Angeles gay bars. They are technically one establishment, but they’re two separate bars.

Most of the time, they use two different entrances. There are times however, that I have visited while have the internal gate between them opened. It seems it depends how crowded things get.

West Hollywood gay clubs
West Hollywood gay clubs
Los Angeles gay clubs

The Abbey is technically a gay bar; however, the crowd is very mixed. Many straight couples also hang out here, but the vibe is clearly tailored to the LGBT community. It is a wonderful and unique change to the typical gay bar. Also, both Chapel and The Abbey have large dance floors in the back!

Micky's West Hollywood

Micky’s is my personal favorite Los Angeles gay bar, located in the heart of West Hollywood. They have an area to hang outside, plenty of room around the bar and a great space to dance in the back.

Micky’s is especially famous for performances by world-famous drag queens, like Alyssa Edwards in the video below!

If you are visiting Micky’s during a holiday weekend when things are very crowded, the bar will have people form a line on the sidewalk. But, they interestingly won’t let anyone in that line enter the bar!

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The only way to get in at times like this is to go directly to the door and ask to pay cash to the bouncer. It’s a bit sad and very chaotic, but I’ve seen it happen several times while visiting Los Angeles, most notably on New Year’s weekend. Most weekends though will be perfectly fine.

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Flaming Saddles

Flaming Saddles WeHo is one of the classic Los Angeles gay nightlife venues and has been around forever. At Flaming Saddles, you’re likely to run into other visitors while watching the muscled boys dance the night away on the bar. It’s a very rowdy and entertaining place to grab a drink. During the week they also have Drag Race showings.

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Los Angeles gay bars
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More Los Angeles Gay Bars

There are dozens of other gay bars in the immediate West Hollywood area and bar hopping between them is super easy. The gay bars Mother Lode and Pump are both a short walk from Micky’s.

Definitely check out FuBar, which is a short cab ride away from the main strip of gay bars in West Hollywood. The crowd here is mixed, but tends to attract a 30+ crowd.

Fubar Los Angeles
SLS hotel cocktail bar Los Angeles
Fubar Los Angeles

Cocktail Lounges in Los Angeles

The Bazaar by José Andrés offers specialty cocktails with cocktail-creation a performance. I loved how the bartender comes over with a small cart to personally make your drink. They are located in the SLS hotel in Beverly Hills. It’s a fun and romantic spot.

SLS hotel cocktail bar Los Angeles

Los Angeles Gay Travel Tips

There is a ton to explore in Los Angeles. Renting a car will make day trips and moving around much easier. You will need a car if you want to explore most major attractions, drive to great beaches and more.

Los Angeles gay travel

There is a ton to explore in Los Angeles. Renting a car will make day trips and moving around much easier. You will need a car if you want to explore most major attractions, drive to great beaches and more.

Los Angeles gay travel
drive through fast food in Los Angeles

However, if renting a car is not an option, you can still have a fantastic time by keeping activities local and exploring select gay attractions in the West Hollywood area.

drive through fast food in Los Angeles
After checking out Los Angeles gay bars and clubs for the first time, I realized that people put a lot of effort into the way they dress and present themselves. Everyone seems to have a carefully curated “look.”

Don’t be afraid to dress to impress if you’re headed out on the town. Gay guys in Los Angeles dress up a little more than New York men do.

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Los Angeles gay traveler
Los Angeles gay travel shopping

The Hollywood Walk of Fame seems to be on many gay tourist’s list of things to do. While it may be something you wish to see, it is not really the best place to hang out in my opinion. This area is very crowded with tourists.

Since there are so many beautiful and authentic things to do in LA, I recommend only spending a short time here if you decide to visit.

Malibu Beaches: Be Careful

Be careful while walking along California beaches especially in the Long Beach, Malibu and South Bay areas. There are frequently globs of tar along the shore. If you step in one of the tar balls, it will be very difficult to remove it from your skin.

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Los Angeles beach
California things to do

These globs are sometimes natural, a result of natural offshore oil seeps, and other times a result of oil spills that have occurred in past years. Keep an eye out for ’em.

Using Lyft & Uber in Los Angeles

Ride-share prices at Los Angeles Airport tend to surge incredibly high as soon as a large flight lets out, especially in the evening. A ride to your hotel can easily triple in price over a few minute’s time.

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Try to avoid the surge by either rushing from your flight to the ride-share area as soon as possible or taking things very slowly until most of the other people have left and prices come back to normal.

California Gay Rights

California is definitely a great place to be LGBT in the States. One of the most liberal states in America, California was the first in the nation to legalize domestic partnerships. The state provides various workplace discrimination protections for LGBT people and protects the LGBT community from a range hate crime.

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will rogers park LA
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In 2008, California courts struck down laws which had banned same-sex marriage in the state. Proposition 8 arose a few months later, a newly created and approved ban on same-sex marriage which received a high amount of media attention across the United States.

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Prop 8 remains in effect in the state of California, however the Federal US government in 2015 ruled that gay marriage is legal in all 50 states.
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For additional resources, head to Visit California’s Los Angeles official website.

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