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wolfyy’s Phuket gay travel guide to top hotels, beaches, gay bars, clubs & authentic experiences.

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The Gay Travel Experience: Phuket, Thailand

Here in Phuket, you’ll find the largest concentration of gay men in Thailand outside of Bangkok. As one of Thailand’s most popular gay destinations, Phuket has a pretty bustling gay scene.

gay bars Patong Beach

In Patong, gay bars snuggle up against one another in a little area called the Paradise Complex. This thriving gay nightlife hub is a must-see for LGBT travelers, but I also recommend exploring the lesser-known parts of Phuket! 

Phuket gay beach
gay bars Patong Beach
Phuket gay beach

I’ve always felt comfortable being gay no matter where I go in Thailand, and Phuket was no exception. If anything, Thai women from massage parlors approaching me (and grabbing my booty!) would be what made me uncomfortable. Ha!

big buddha sculpture temple

Read this guide thoroughly, because Phuket is a highly touristic area that needs to be explored tactfully. If you don’t plan correctly, you might just end up ordering a pepperoni pizza in an Egyptian restaurant surrounded by Russian tourists.

bangla walking street
big buddha sculpture temple
bangla walking street

My biggest piece of advice for gay travelers is to spend time in more than one place in Phuket. Each area of the island (which is quite large) has a completely different vibe–and it’s all worth exploring.

Gay Phuket: Hotels & Where to Stay

Phuket is a gigantic island, so there are dozens of different areas to choose from. Below, I’ll mention options including bustling Patong Beach, the Phuket Old Town, and some more secluded areas with more natural beauty.

phuvaree resort in phuket

Gay Patong: Where to Stay

Patong is by far the busiest and most touristic area of Phuket. It’s the gay nightlife hub and is very walkable. I recommend gay travelers visit Patong, but really only for the nightlife.

the phuvaree gay travel hotels
the phuvaree resort drinks welcome
phuvaree resort in phuket

Two nights in Patong will suffice. I think the gay culture here is entertaining and unique, but there really is not much authenticity in this part of town right next to the shore.

the phuvaree resort drinks welcome

Patong suffers from over-tourism in my opinion, exemplified by every single restaurant offering international food with menus in 5 languages. Plus, the beach is way over-hyped! Your best bet is to stay just a bit away from the beach so you can enjoy more local markets and such.

Phuvaree Resort

I recommend Phuvaree Resort in Patong Beach. Reasonable prices, exceptional service, and great amenities make this hotel my top choice for being near the center of nightlife. They have a big air-conditioned gym, a large tranquil pool, and bright natural light in the rooms.

gay travel phuket hotel with gym
the phuvaree gay travel hotels
gay travel phuket hotel with gym

Motorbike rentals are available right next door to the hotel, so you can get around very easily! Taxis are also available on the street and the fare to the bars is quite low.

gay hotel in Phuket

Phuket Gay Homestay

Phuket Gay Homestay is a relatively new gay guesthouse-style resort in the Kathu area, which is only 15 minutes from Patong Beach. 

They’re a men-only accommodation with caring staff and a lovely pool that’s usually filled with gay guys having a ton of fun.

Phuket gay resort
Phuket gay resort
gay hotel in Phuket

A 5-room gay resort with well-air-conditioned rooms and plenty of common space, Phuket Gay Homestay always offers a comfortable and intimate experience.

Where to stay in South Patong

Slightly further south along the west coast of Phuket, you will find more secluded beaches with fewer tourists. As you go down the coast, there are more large resorts.

best hotel in Thailand Patong
the Yama Hotel phuket resort gay friendly
best hotel in Thailand Patong

I also stayed at The Yama Hotel Phuket on my journey through south Patong. By far, this was the best hotel I’ve stayed in while visiting Thailand.

the Yama Hotel phuket resort gay friendly

Yama Hotel’s service was outstanding, and the building’s physical design was something I had never seen before. My private terrace with a mini pool made me so happy. It was total luxury!

Bloo Hostel old phuket

Old Phuket Town Hotels & Hostels

Phuket Town was my last stop on the island and accommodations are plentiful here. There are hundreds of Old Town hotels and hostels within a 15-minute walking distance to the center. 

Phuket hostel
Phuket hostel
Bloo Hostel old phuket

At Bloo Hostel, I stayed in a comfortable and stylish private room and absolutely loved it. I’d 100% stay here again.

Other Places to Stay in Phuket

Many popular and luxurious beach resorts are halfway between Patong Beach and the airport. Adjacent to Surin Beach, Bang Tao hotels and resorts are quite popular for those staying north of Patong.

yama hotel phuket
yama hotel phuket
local thai food

With major resorts like the Banyan Tree Phuket along the waterfront, this area speaks for itself. I didn’t get a chance to visit this part of Phuket, but my gay Italian friends loved it.

More Phuket Hotels I Recommend

Here are a few other fantastic places to stay in Phuket that are highly rated and near Patong Beach, the notable Phuket gay area.

hotel for phuket gay travelers

Searocco Phuket

Skyview Resort Phuket

SKYVIEW Resort

Charm Resort Phuket

The Charm Resort

hostel in Patong

BGW Phuket Hostel

Stay in Multiple Phuket Locations

For first-time travelers Phukey gay travelers, I recommend spending a few days in southern Phuket to experience some true beauty, and perhaps two nights in Patong Beach to experience the gay nightlife.

local thai food

Head to the very south of the island if you have more time. You’ll find even more seclusion here. Alternatively, book a place in the Old Phuket Town toward the eastern side of the island.

Phuket Gay Travel Experiences

If you haven’t tried Durian fruit yet, now is your chance. They can be found at most outdoor markets. I got mine at Banzaan Fresh Market in Patong.

raw durian fruits

If you haven’t had or seen these before, know this: you either like them or the smell repulses you. The fruit has the texture of soft butter and the taste is nothing like the smell! It’s quite sweet.

raw durian fruits
durian fruit gay travel experiences
durian fruit gay travel experiences

Big Buddha is a fantastic destination for an afternoon, a masterpiece of a sculpture that should not be missed. Big Buddha is best reached by motorbike. Cruising up the mountainside is peaceful and relaxing. I guarantee you will love it.

It takes a bit of time to reach the top of the Phuket Big Buddha, so make sure you have enough gasoline! Entry is free, there are bathroom facilities, and some shops selling essentials outside the entrance.

big buddha in phuket
big buddha in phuket
big buddha phuket

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The Best Beach in Phuket

Paradise Beach was without a doubt best beach I found in Phuket. Music with great beats, beach bed rentals, seclusion, and modern facilities made this my favorite spot.

gay travel best beaches phuket paradise

There is a wonderful floating pier from which you can dive in the water. Activities wind down here at sunset, except on nights where there is a festival! I didn’t catch a festival, but it looked like it would have been a blast.

gay travel best beaches phuket paradise
paradise beach in phuket Thailand
paradise beach in phuket Thailand

You will need a motorbike to get to Paradise Beach since the approaching road is extremely steep, a bit too uncomfortable to walk.

Halfway to the beach from the main road, all cars are stopped, but if you have a motorbike you can drive down the mountainside right up to the entrance. There is free parking too.

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Patong Beach & Karon Beach

Patong Beach was quite displeasing in my opinion. Generic gay travel as well as regular travel websites completely over-hype this beach to capitalize on website clicks. The water was murky and had significant trash floating around.

gay travel hotels in phuket

Don’t believe all the filtered images of Patong Beach that you see online. The water here is nowhere near blue. Personally, this false advertising gets on my nerves!

gay travel hotels in phuket
rooftop bar Thailand phuket

It is also difficult to relax on Patong Beach because there are boat-drawn parachutes taking off and landing all along the shoreline. Their attendants continue screaming to get people out of the way.

rooftop bar Thailand phuket

Karon Beach was decent in my opinion. A great middle-ground option if you don’t want to drive to Paradise beach, It’s a short distance south of Patong Beach.

Less of a crowd, plenty of rentable chairs, and clearer water make it a better option for gay travelers in Phuket.

Gay Patong Experiences

You must of course get a Thai Massage while visiting Patong! But be judicious about which place you enter. How can you tell a good massage parlor from a dirty, sketchy place?

Firstly, the better places don’t need to have five to seven women sitting on the sidewalk chanting “massage.”

shopping gay travel Patong

Choose a massage parlor that you don’t need to be convinced to enter. This way, you’ll avoid potentially unpleasant surprises, if you know what I mean.

shopping gay travel Patong
coconut ice cream Patong Beach

Jungceylon is a modern shopping mall complex located right in the center of Patong Beach. International clothing and accessory brands are located here, so you’ll have a chance to pick up any needed items.

coconut ice cream Patong Beach

Restaurants (most of which are not Thai) and bars in the Jungceylon complex are outrageously expensive for Thailand. However, you are really paying for the experience more so than the food.

I only recommend eating in Jungceylon to those who strictly prefer ornate restaurants and have the extra money to spend. Many places here including Starbucks also have free wi-fi.

Phuket Old Town Things To Do

Old Phuket is known for its picturesque multicolored pastel buildings. The streets are just as charming as the photos portray. This little town has such an adorable ambiance, completely different from bustling Patong.

Don’t miss Thalang Street, the main place to find adorable shops, cafés, and restaurants.

old Phuket Town buildings
old Phuket Town buildings
gay travel old Phuket streets

Thalang #31 is my top suggestion for cooling off with a drink while exploring Old Phuket Town. It’s an impressively stylish bar and café with indoor/outdoor seating. Spending an hour or so here enjoying the wonderful interior finishes and thoughtful design is so relaxing.

gay travel old Phuket streets

Modern coffee shops are popular in Old Phuket. They are everywhere, and usually are quite stylish! Many of them have that sort of “hipster” feel.

I spent some time at Campus Coffee Roasters, which has super cold air conditioning, the fastest wi-fi around, and delicious pastries.

restaurants in Old Phuket gay travelers
best food in Old Phuket restaurant
best food in Old Phuket restaurant

Je t’aime in Phuket Town has some unbeatable Vietnamese food. If you’re in the Old Town, a meal here is a must!

restaurants in Old Phuket gay travelers

The flavors I experienced here were like nothing else. I was also a newbie to Vietnamese food, and they showed me the proper way to eat everything. Absolutely incredible service and a beautiful interior.

Thailand Gay Tours in Phuket

Joining a Thailand gay tour group is a fantastic and easy way to explore the most beautiful parts of the country. 

Alongside a group of other gay travelers, you can make a bunch of new friends and make the most of your travel experience. Plus, transportation, logistics, and all sorts of other details are taken care of for you.

Phuket gay tour

Out Adventures is the best and most popular organizer of Thailand gay tours. They offer a couple of different vacation packages and honestly, these tours look epic.

Phuket gay tour
Thailand gay tours

Their Temples & Beaches gay tour starts in Bangkok, stops over in Chiang Mai, and ends in Phuket.

Following a similar route, the Out Adventures Thai New Year gay tour takes place during the country’s fun-filled Songkran New Year celebration.

Thailand gay tours

For other Thailand and Phuket gay tour options, check out offers from these popular gay tour companies.

Phuket Gay Bars & Clubs

Paradise Complex is the main center of Phuket gay bars. There are many gay bars and small gay clubs along this street, all of which you can check out in one or two nights. 

Boat Bar & Zagg Club

Boat Bar is my Thai friend’s favorite gay bar, located right next to the Grand Paradise Hotel. A great drag show with dancing and fun bar staff kept us going all night long!

gay friends in Phuket
gay friends in Phuket
drag show in Patong Beach gay

Zagg Club is another popular gay bar option. It is only a few steps away from Boat Bar. They have an outdoor show pretty much every night with a large number of dancers. After that show, they welcome everyone inside the bar for more fun and dancing.

drag show in Patong Beach gay

Make sure you read my travel tip below on when to get to Paradise Complex Phuket gay area because going too early can be a mistake.

Other Phuket Bars

You’ll probably walk through Bangla Walking Street without even trying. This is the main straight nightlife center in Patong, which garners some mixed feelings from gay travelers. It is extremely crowded and full of what you may call “trashy” bars.

gay travel bars in Old Phuket

You’ll encounter female dancers on bar tables and hundreds of workers trying to convince you to come into their establishment.

gay travel bars in Old Phuket
Bangla walking street clubs

Since you’re in Patong, I’m sure you will want to check it out anyway. And so, if you are there, go to Crystal Bar.

Bangla walking street clubs

In my opinion, this cute spot was the most elegant bar in the area. They play fun pop music that gay travelers would love! There are also cute little beanbag chairs outside near the sidewalk.

Phuket Gay Travel Tips

Finding an Airport Transfer

The Phuket airport is far north of central Phuket, so plan to grab a taxi or shared minivan if you are flying in.

Budget travelers can find cheap shared van transfers, and those who prefer privacy can book a private airport transfer.

gay phuket traveler
gay phuket traveler
central phuket at night

Travelers arriving by bus should take note that the main bus station is actually not near Patong Beach. I learned on my journey that buses destined for the terminal will stop at travel agencies before arriving at the main station.

central phuket at night

At these travel agencies, you can get a shared minivan to your hotel in Patong Beach. If you want to make sure this is possible on your route, check with the bus attendant because your ticket likely won’t state it.

Pack Your Tropical Vacation Essentials

Before you head off to paradise, check wolfyy’s useful list of what to pack for tropical destinations. You’ll find my favorite waterproof gear, lightweight clothing ideas, rain gear, and tons more.

The Paradise Complex

You may be itching to check out the Patong Paradise Complex (the Phuket gay street) as soon as you arrive, but don’t go too early! If you show up before 11/11:30 PM, you may find yourself creeped out by the male masseurs crowding around you on a dark, empty street.

gay bar in Patong Beach
gay bar in Patong Beach
main bar street in Patong Beach gay

Life in the gay area begins just before midnight. Don’t make the same mistake as me by going earlier.

Avoid Massage Solicitations

In Patong Beach, I guarantee you will be approached and offered a massage on the sidewalks. Here is a chance to practice your best poker face.

These women (and sometimes men) can get feisty, pulling your arm or repeatedly tapping you. So, if you want to avoid a prolonged interaction, just keep walking.

main bar street in Patong Beach gay

Phuket Money-Saving Tips

You will save a bunch of cash in Thailand by bartering. Here are a few helpful tips. Keep these numbers in mind, or jot them down before your trip so you don’t overpay.

renting motorbikes in Patong
renting motorbikes in Patong
buddhist temple

When renting a motorbike for a day, don’t pay more than 200-250 Baht. Anything more and you’re getting completely ripped off. Usually, they will give you a bike that’s almost empty, so plan to add some gasoline. For 100 Baht, the company that rented to me filled my tank.

street markets in Patong Beach

Taxi rides from town to town should not cost more than 500 Baht. I paid 450 Baht to get from Patong Beach to South Patong (a 30-minute ride), but the advertised price is 600 baht. For reference, I paid 600 Baht for a private air-conditioned car from South Patong to Old Phuket.

local markets in Patong Beach
local markets in Patong Beach
street markets in Patong Beach

Pad Thai and other noodle dishes cooked in local restaurants should cost no more than 100 Baht per plate.

In most Thailand destinations, I paid 80 Baht for noodle dishes with chicken, so if you’re paying more, you’re probably in either a fancy restaurant or a tourist trap! The bare-bones price for Pad Thai is 80 Baht, no lower.

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Don’t forget to check out wolfyy’s Bangkok and Koh Samui travel guides for more gay Thailand destination advice.

Need more gay vacation inspiration? Explore wolfyy’s full list of gay travel guides.

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