Delhi Gay Travel

Essential Delhi gay travel advice for hotels, experiences, gay life & my story about meeting a Delhi gay local.

The Gay Travel Experience: Delhi, India

It was complete happenstance. A casual conversation on the streets of Delhi led me to a night full of King Fisher beers and laughing with the locals. My time in Delhi was short, but my fondest memories of India are of my visit to the Indian capital.

I traveled to Delhi on my way to the city of Amritsar as well as to visit Agra, where I went to see the Taj Mahal. Delhi is the first city in India where I met a gay local.

The night I met him and his group of friends, I had no idea he was gay. Read more later in this Delhi gay travel guide and I’ll explain how it all happened.

I traveled to Delhi and Agra on a solo journey through central and northern India. Read more about solo travel and why I love it.

Gay Delhi: Hotels & Where to Stay

Hotels in Delhi are quite affordable, so most travelers will be able to get a good quality in hotel. I recommend staying in the Janpath neighborhood New Delhi.

I stayed at Hotel Palace Heights in this area. I loved enjoying coffee each morning on their beautiful terrace, breathing in the humid morning air.

If visiting the Taj Mahal, locals and tourists will both tell you that its best to stay in Delhi and make a day trip to Agra. Delhi is much more authentic than Agra because of the extreme number of tourists in Agra for the Taj Mahal.

The Connaught Place area is quite commercialized, so you’ll surely feel safe walking around any time of day or night. Well-lit store fronts and restaurants line the main circle. I felt very comfortable here and would definitely recommend Connaught Place hotels.

If you’re looking specifically for a gay hotel in Delhi, consider Mister & Art House. They claim to be India’s first small boutique guest house and art gallery only for men.

Mister & Art House is toward the south of Delhi. It’s about a 30-minute drive from the Connaught Place area I mentioned above.

If you’d like to explore other neighborhoods, here’s a complete list of the highly rated best rated hotels in Delhi.

Delhi Gay Travel Experiences

First and foremost, visit both the Taj Mahal and the Agra Fort. Head to any travel agency in the area and get a private driver for the day. Or, book a Taj Mahal & Agra Fort private tour in advance. Depending on what you do, this should cost between $50 and $70 USD.

The tour should include driver to and from Agra (3+ hour drive each way), private tour guides for both sites and possibly admission. Bring extra cash for food and incidentals.

I cannot think of words to describe how wildly stimulating it was to be in Old Delhi. Roads and paths are jam-packed with cars, horse-drawn carriages, motorbikes and rickshaws. This immense density was something I had never experienced before.

Old Delhi is so compact, satellite imagery cannot even render the true pathways. Go check Google Maps and you’ll see what I mean! It’s literally a blur.

The Jama Masjid should also top your list of attractions. One of the largest mosques in India, definitely make a trip. During my visit to Delhi, I got in an Uber bound for the Jama Masjid. With all the traffic though, I ended up arriving after dusk.

I hadn’t known that after sunset the mosque is closed! From the outside, it looked marvelous, so please let me know how it is!

Take note of local Indian restaurants as you walk the streets of Delhi. Some of the best stuff isn’t on Google. I also recommend avoiding restaurants in main commercial centers like Connaught Place.

Make sure to try some Gulab Jamun wherever you end up having dinner, a typical Indian sweet dessert I adore.

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Nightlife: My Gay Delhi Experience

After a rest from a day of exploring, I decided to go for a walk after dark through the streets of New Delhi. Shops had closed for the day and I wanted to take in the vibe of the city.

While searching Google for a local bar, a young man approached me. He asked if I needed directions. Thinking he wanted something from me, I was a little stand-offish but continued to engage in casual conversation.

After a few minutes, three other young guys started approaching us, laughing and shoving each other playfully along the way. All the men greeted one another happily and started speaking in Hindi. I became a little suspicious, but did not feel threatened.

Long story short, after fifteen or so minutes of chatting, they convinced me to head to a local bar with them. I thought to myself, “what the hell…why not?” We were on our way to a little dive place called MyBar. They gained my trust.

Turns out we had a blast drinking beer and sharing some of our personal lives with one another until the bar closed! Slightly drunk and walking back to my area of town, we all started saying goodbye to one another.

As I hugged my new friends goodbye, the last one held on just a little longer than expected. A little bell went off in my head, and things suddenly clicked. We all added each other on social media and said goodnight.

His friends didn’t know he is gay, as you might expect for a young man in India. I realized as we chatted a bit the next day, as they invited me to a house party the next night. I do feel lucky to have met a gay man in India and learned a little about his life, however short of an experience it was.

During my visit in 2016, same-sex relations were still criminal and so as you might imagine, gay life is tough for people in India. Read more on India gay life in the final section of this guide.

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Delhi Gay Travel Tips

You may notice the streets of New Delhi are a web of traffic circles. The British architect Edwin Lutyens planned the city, built while Delhi was under British rule. Most of New Delhi’s architecture also reflects this, with stately classical styles.

I recommend downloading a translator app on your cell phone, preferably one that does not require cell service. There were a few situations with my Uber drivers where they did not speak any English and so I needed my translator for Hindi.

If you’re bound for Old Delhi, keep your belongings secure and don’t carry too much cash. I say this only because with such an intense density of people, you’ll likely be in close proximity to others. Don’t let pickpockets steal from you.

Bribery is common in India. If you for any reason have to deal with police, expect to pay them a monetary bribe to make things right. Long story short, I lost my wallet in an Uber, and the driver requested police meet us to ensure safety.

My Indian local friends helped out, vouching for me in Hindi. I ended up having to pay the cops a few hundred rupees.

Gay Rights in India

Being gay is still taboo in India and homophobia is still prevalent, although it is on the decline. India still has a long way to go regarding LGBT inclusivity. The laws regarding homosexuality have oscillated over the years with a recent positive outcome.

India decriminalized homosexuality in 2009. In 2013, this ruling was reversed with the government deferring to legislators on the issue. Then in September 2018, the Indian high court unanimously agreed to decriminalize same-sex relations, a huge step forward.

Tolerance of the LGBT community in India is slowly changing. In most large Indian cities there is significant support for LGBT people. They are much less conservative as you might expect.

In 2016, the International LGBT and Intersex Association found that about a third of Indians support same-sex marriage and another third are not sure. This speaks to the fact many Indians simply need guidance on supporting their fellow LGBT citizens.

All in all, India has made great progress so far, and I am looking forward to seeing even more protections be put in place for the LGBT community!

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